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February 05, 2008 - 06:36 PM

  I was at work looking a at the news over the net and ran across this. I have 2 children 4 and 2. This story has touched me in so many ways. My eyes became tearful looking at his pictures and reading this story. My heart goes out to you and your family. God Bless You!! Look to God and have faith. Your baby is an angel in heaven. He's probley looking down at you and saying "I'm fine, I'm in Heaven" I don't know you but you all will be in my prayers!
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January 30, 2008 - 11:59 PM

  hey ryan i will miss you very much u are always in my heart as a good little buddy of mine and u will always b in my prayers.
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January 29, 2008 - 08:22 PM
April Zotz

  hey buddy i dont know what to say besides its been a year, and really miss you. I know your family misses. Im very proud of you for all that you have done in a year buddy. Its because of you that so many kids are getting treated a lot better bud. I know alot of people wont ferget about you because your one of a kind buddy. I know your family and I wont ever forget about you and we will always be proud of you buddy. well Ryan I miss you and I wish you where still here with us.
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January 29, 2008 - 01:16 PM

  I pray for you and your family.
I know this is the one year ann.
I wish I could say more.
God Bless you.
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January 29, 2008 - 11:08 AM
Pat Buchana

  What a sweet and innocent boy. I am moved by what you all have gone through, and very sad for your loss. There's no doubt in my mind he is up in Heaven playing with his friends, and watching over his family.

I do hope you all get justice in your lawsuit. As an Engineer, I can tell you that it is a terrible design to not only have a flimsy building wall where kids sit, but to also have a parking lot adjoin the building with no protection. The Aldi grocery store in, I think, either Effingham or Vandalia, was crashed into by a car several years ago. It was built with brick and has a parking lot adjoining it. Somehow, that design team figured out how to address this obvious safety issue. To not account for this in my Engineering mind, is like flunking basic Engineering 101. There is no excuse for it, and anyone who tries to tell you differently, is full of you know what.

There are standards out there that the school system should have followed in considering the strength and design of the building. Then there's common sense. Both should go into designs. Teachers and administrators shouldn't just decouple themselves from the design process. And they shouldn't just take safety for granted. They should be pro-active, and involved daily in ensuring safety, and thinking through scenarios in their minds about what could be improved - such as this situation that caused Ryan's death.

They should play an integral role. And who was it that wasn't doing their job during the design stages of that cafeteria and failed to properly consider things like this? It should not be the case that stores and buildings within an hour or two of Shiloh have cars crash into them, be built out of brick, and yet this is not applied to a school cafeteria where hundreds of kids are sitting.

That really makes me mad, and angry at the system and the people who are supposed to be competent adults running it. We are too focused on all sorts of spending on this and on that...
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January 19, 2008 - 02:01 AM
April Zotz

  hey buddy i really miss you. Thangs have not been the same without you buddy. I thank about you all the time, and everything good that has hapened in my life I thank you buddy. Well I just wanted to say I miss you buddy and Ill never forget you.
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January 18, 2008 - 07:08 PM

  Well baby, here we are, almost a whole year has passed and yet it feels like ten minutes. We are doing our thing everyday and it's good to stay busy. Dad is good he just misses you. I always had to listen to everyone this year talk about getting through the "firsts" but you know you are numb through those and I think the "seconds" would be worse but I told them that I miss you the same every day so there isn't any one more significant than the other(except your birthday...that one is hard). I try really hard to see you in my mind as you were not how you are but I know things....I know your wearing your favorite t-shirt under your sponge bob, I know you aren't wearing any shoes because you hated to wear shoes, I know you have your rice crispy bar and all your dvd's....I think of all these things sometimes and I'm glad that in my fog I didn't forget anything but most of all I know my lips are on your cheek and they'll always be there, know matter how many years go by.I love you punk
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January 04, 2008 - 11:22 AM
Tammy Gourley
tinkerbelbabii@yahoo.com http://www.myspace.com/secciibabytammy

  Hey lil guy. i hope ur having fun up there. everyone misses you even though u already knew that. i find myself coming here alot and reading what everyone says, and i've found myself buying all kinds of spongebob things. i miss you alot. even though i didn't get to see u very much i still love you and miss you.

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December 29, 2007 - 10:02 PM
heather wesling

  i miss u so much i love u with all my heart and i have fun but i feel it isnt right without u with me but i feel that u r with me all the time and i am with a guy named jonathon and he is really cool if only you could meet him.................. all i am saying is i love you and i write letters to you all the time cuz i know you can read them lol but i miss you just letting you know that u r still in my heart and allways will be your sister
----heather nicole wesling
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December 26, 2007 - 03:18 AM
Jonathan Verheyen

  I never met Ryan, but i know Heather pretty well and if he was anything like her then then i know he was a good kid. I'm sorry for your loss and I hope you guys can pull through this.
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